Friends and Funerals







Friends and Funerals – A Poem by Shashikant Dudhgaonkar

Introduction: There’s a quote going around about friends on Facebook and WhatsApp. It’s as follows:

“One of us will see all the funerals, one of us will see none, and one will have none of us at theirs.”

Made me scribble my thoughts on it.

Friends and Funerals

I may be the first or last
Or in no man’s land
Does it matter

When I came to the world
Some had arrived
Some arrived later
It didn’t matter then
Doesn’t matter now
Nor will later

When I close my eyes
I won’t be
When they close their eyes
They won’t be

If I go later
Will say the goodbyes with gratitude
Content that the moments we shared
Will always outweigh
Those that we won’t
By tons

And if I go early
It won’t matter to me at all
Won’t matter to you also
For I know you’ll open the bottles
Kept aside
And say your goodbyes
With Cheers !!

©️ Shashikant Dudhgaonkar

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